Your Frienemy!!!

Frienemy!!!

I love this term. I like thinking of making up words often or is it that I just start talking so fast I merge them together, ha!

It's like Pressuristic... a great combination of a Pressured Scenario that is Realistic :)

On this note, I was watching a movie and I think it was My Best Friends Wedding and I think they used this term.

It got me to thinking a month or so ago about it and I wrote it down in my journal. I always like going back and going through my old notes; but this one I didn't have to. It's been on my mind since I wrote it down.

Everyone needs friends; but sometimes we need to have our friends not be so friendly and be a little more like our enemies. Lets say an enemy with our best interests in mind. It is because they care about us so much that they call us on our weaknesses in body, mind, spirit and most definitely choices.

On that note though is that if you don't have a Frienemy, then you need to become your own. This can be pretty tough and it has to start with doing something extremely important. You have to write your own mission statement. I know, crazy right!!! Sounds all corporate and stuff huh?!

Well lets change it and say you need to write a Personal Mission Statement. This I always look at as the thing you want to do with your life. The thing that you live for everyday. For me, it is when I am no longer around, what will people say about me.

Do this as your first step and the next will be much easier.

Be your own Frienemy and be sure that all your decisions from your "to do list" to your "cross roads" always get made in your Personal Mission Statements best interest.

Get crackin or I guest I should say get writing and lets see if it makes a difference with the choices you make. Be your own Frienemy or find a friend to be your enemy and hold your responsible.

Guro Larry